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It's 7ish in the morning and I feel much better from last night. My body was burning hot, literally hot. Partially it was my fault for not sleeping well two nights before and also the chinese medicine my mom asked me to take. The medicine was too heaty for me to handle and I had throbbing headache, empty mind and a bad sore throat yesterday. A good excuse for me to escape from studying though, heh heh. T thinks I'm scaring him with my speed to get into mugger mode. Actually now, I enjoy studying. I hope this mugger mode will last me till 30th!

Anyway, T has been really sweet yesterday night. He went to buy tauhuay + black sesame rice balls and selegie's soya bandung with pearl for me. He massaged my back and head for me, slept through the night in the super humid weather without air-con and pulled me out of bed so I might recover faster. In short, he took care of me well. ♥

On another note, I realised there are so many people and things around me I should appreciate. There are also things and people I need to filter out to make my life a better one. Sometimes it's only those critical moments when you can really see who's there for you and who won't be. "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." This is sooo darn true. :)


Gonna go study for tomorrow's micro paperzzzz, wish me good luck!

1. Not showing up.
One of the biggest and simplest thing you can do to ensure more success in your life – whether it be in your social life, your career or with your health – is simply to show up more. If you want to improve your health then one of the most important and effective things you can do is just to show up at the gym every time you should be there.

2. Procrastinating half the day. To keep it short, my 3 favourite ways to get out of a procrastinating state are:
A good start in the morning lifts your spirits and creates a positive momentum for the rest of the day. That often creates a pretty productive day.
Split a task into small actionable steps. Then just focus on the first step and nothing else. Just do that one until it’s done. Then move on to the next step.
I find this guided mediation to be very useful. After 20 minutes of mostly just lying on my bed and listening I’m far more productive for a few days.

3. When actually doing something, doing something that isn't the most important thing right now.
When you have prioritized using this rule just write down the top 3 most important things you need to do that day. Then, from the top, start doing them. Even if you just get one of the things done, you have still done the most important thing you could do today.

4. Thinking too much.
Compulsively thinking and thinking and thinking is just another way to waste your time. You don’t have to examine everything from every angle before you try it. And you can’t wait for the perfect time to do something. That time never comes. And if you keep thinking you’ll just dig yourself down deeper and deeper and taking action will become more and more difficult. Instead you just need to stop thinking. Shut of your mind – it just helps you up to a point – and go do whatever you need to do.

5. Seeing the negative and downsides in just about anything.
When you see everything from a negative perspective you quickly punch a hole in your own motivation. You find faults everywhere and problems where there are really none. You cling to details. If you want to find a reason to not do something then that’s no problem. From a negative viewpoint you can find ten reasons every time.

6. Clinging to your own thoughts and being closed to outside influences.
It can be hard to admit that what you thought or believed was not the best alternative. So you cling to your thoughts harder and harder and keep your mind closed. This makes it hard to improve and for instance to become more effective. Even really considering the possibility that you can change your life can be difficult in this position.

7. Constantly on information overload.
With information overload I don’t just mean that you read a lot. I pretty much mean an overload in all input. If you just let all information flow into your mind it will be hard to think clearly. It’s just too much stimulation.


(source: x)

"Expect the best, be prepared for the worst, fuck what others think and do your own thing."


Important dates of the month:
11th, 19th, 21st, 23rd, 25th, 27th and 30th.

The italic ones are my exam dates, oh crap!